解:|x+2|+|1-x|=9-|y-5|-|1+y|,∴|x+2|+|1-x|+|y-5|+|1+y|=9,
当x≥1,y≥5时,x+2+x-1+y-5+y+1=9,2x+2y=12,x+y=6,
当1>x≥-2,5>y≥-1时,x+2+1-x+5-y+y+1=9,但x+y<6,
当x<-2,y<-1时,-x-2+1-x+5-y-1-y=9,-2x-2y=6,x+y=-3,
故x+y最大值为6,最小值为-3.
解:|x+2|+|1-x|=9-|y-5|-|1+y|,∴|x+2|+|1-x|+|y-5|+|1+y|=9,
当x≥1,y≥5时,x+2+x-1+y-5+y+1=9,2x+2y=12,x+y=6,
当1>x≥-2,5>y≥-1时,x+2+1-x+5-y+y+1=9,但x+y<6,
当x<-2,y<-1时,-x-2+1-x+5-y-1-y=9,-2x-2y=6,x+y=-3,
故x+y最大值为6,最小值为-3.